Inspiration

You are not what they say your are, and you are not even what they think. You are who you choose to be. You the way you choose to live, to speak, to wonder and to wander. You are what you most profoundly thankful for, and what you love. You have no obligation to meet anyone else's expectations. You have obligation yourself and to your life, to set your own expectations beyond even the reaches of imagination. There is no need and no reason to be intimated. Live so that when might have previous intimated you will instead begin to inspire you. This life you have is nothing short of miracle. What you do with it today, tomorrow every little moment, is up to you. So choose wisely, and remember that in all things you do have a choice. Choose sa if your life  depends on it, for it does. Are your doubts holding you back? The way to conquer your doubts is with action. Wondering about whether you can do it will not get it done. The only way to know for sure is to jump right in and get started. Avoiding challenges will only make those challenges bigger. Instead walk right up to each challenge and the closer you get, the more ways you discover to get beyond it. If you wait until the condition is perfect, all you is ever do is wait. Great accomplishments are given birth by starting from where you are with what you have. As soon as you start to take action, you will begin to replace your doubts with courage and confidence. The more you do, the more insignificant those doubts will become.               

Self acceptance

Success is something we can plant and grow throughout life. Self acceptance and self importance can be tilled and nurtured. If we don't feel good about ourselves, we will obviously rejeet many of the good things that come to us with no knowledge of how to accept them. Everyday you perform all your day duties and get ready for yourself our daily routine. If you add a simple thing in your day  routine your life will change to a better extent. What you have do for sell acceptance the answer is simple-affirmative self talk. You have to do this daily. Just stand in front of mirror when you are completely ready observe yourself 10 to 15 seconds. Then make a eye-contact with your reflection and repeat these statements in the mind at least three times.

"I am best creativity of Almighty. I love myself and I accept myself the way I am. I am important for me and my family."

This self talk will change your energy level of working. By looking within we  can identify which values are really meaningful to us. As you identified meaningful important values, you will able to set priorities to achieve your goals. If you don't know your values then you will be forced to do something which you don't like. Though you are not forced you will come to know your own worth or meaningful values when some crises, trauma or catastrophe may come to your way which will make you to recognize the importance of these values in your life.

If we cultivate humanity we don't be in company of bragging people. If we cultivate patience we would become a good listener instead of talking all the time. It is difficult for human to stay focused because there is too much happening around us. As our priorities are not set means we have not decided what to do first and what to do next, we get diverted and our focus and target and in result we do not achieve anything for this you must use this affirmation-

"I am clear with priorities and I am doing according to my priorities and I am focused on my goal. "

Finally I must say- if you have desire and focus to achieve you will achieve at least partially though not fully. Goals are what wheels are to train they keep us on the track.

Thank you for reading.

जीराफ

जीराफच्या पिल्लाला जन्म घेतांना कदाचीतच कुणी बघीतलं असेल. आईच्या गर्भातुन तो दहा फुट उंचीवरुन धाडकन जमीनीवर पडुन जन्म घेतो.खाली पडताच तो पाय पोटाशी दुमडुन शरीराचं गाठोडं करुन राहतो. अर्भकच ते ! ना त्याच्यात पायावर उभं रहाण्याची क्षमता असते ना ईच्छा. त्याची आई क्षणभर आपल्या जिभेने त्याचे नाक कान साफ करते आणि अवघ्या पाचच मिनीटानी ती अर्भकाला कठोरतेचा धडा शिकवते.

ती प्रथम पीलाच्या चारी बाजुनी फिरते आणि मग अचानक असं काही करु लागते की बघणारा आश्चर्यचकीत होउन जातो. अचानक ती अर्भकाला ईतक्या जोराने लाथ मारते की ते दोन कोलांट्या मारुन दुर जाउन पडतं.

यावरही जेव्हा ते बाळ उभही राहु शकत नाही, ती पुन्हा शक्तीशाली लाथ मारते. लाथा खाउन खाउन तो बिचारा अर्धमेला होउन जातो. तरीही त्याची आई प्रहार करत जाते. आणि एका क्षणाला ते पील्लु आपल्या कमजोर कोवळ्या टांगांवर कसेतरी उभे राहते.

आई जिराफ त्यावेळी पुन्हा विचीत्र काम करु लागते, ती आपल्या बाळाचे पाय जीभेने चाटु लागते. ती त्याला आठवण देउ ईच्छिते की तो आपल्या पायावर कसा उभा राहीला. जंगलात आता धोक्याच्या परीस्थितीत एका उडीतच पिल्लाला सुरक्षीत ठिकाणी जावे लागणार आहे.

जिराफच्या ज्या पिल्लांना आईचा लाथांचा प्रसाद मिळत नाही, ते जंगलातील हींस्त्र श्वापदांचा बळी पडतात.
जगात असे अनेक लोकं आहेत, जे कठोर मेहनत करुनही धुत्कारल्या जातात, त्यांच्यावर नियती असेच एकामागोमाग एक प्रहार करत जाते.

परंतु जितक्या वेळा त्या़च्यावर प्रहार होतो तीतक्या वेळा ते खचुन न जाता पुन्हा नव्या जोमाने कार्याला लागतात. अशा लोकांना पराजीत करणं वा त्यांच्या ध्येयापासुन परावृत्त करणं अशक्य आहे. आणि एका क्षणी आयुष्याच्या एका सुंदर वळणावर त्यांना त्यांच ध्येय मिळुनच जातं ज्याकरता त्यांनी ईतक्या यातना सहन केल्या.

एक मासाचं अर्भक हे करु शकतं, आपण तर धट्टेकट्टे माणसं आहोत. चला उठुया नव्या जोमाने. नवीन क्षितीजांकडे जाण्यासाठी. एक सुर्य झाकाळला म्हणुन काय झाले. अनंत सुर्य अनंत क्षितीजे आपली वाट बघत आहेत...

Your present and good habits

Most of human race in entrenched in yesterday time capsule or tomorrow time rap. Surely yesterday is important, for it is the canvas and foundation of our life's painting or it will be the canvas on which we will paint for the rest of the life. But today is vital and important because only when we will paint vibrant colours into the lives that we can make any difference. Hence you have to remain in present and avoid thinking about bad happenings in past and stop worrying about future.

Here I must add an affirmation for you to keep yourself in present. Because to remain in lots of hindrances. When you waste your time in swinging between past and future just roar and repeat yourself these few sentences.

"Present is precious gift given to me by almighty. I am happy with this gift. I will always stay in present and focus on my today."

In day to day life we hear many things. But happiness, pleasure come to your way when you hear good things to grow and develop into a better person performing better deeds and proceeding better results. To hear is a very natural process because you can't close your ears. To recall good things is important. And this a the tool to develop the personality of yourself. Here you have to train yourself by a affirmation, it is very easy to talk to yourself these simple sentences- "I only recall good things which I have heard, seen or read. The good things help me to develop good habits and thus I am becoming a good person. Due my good habits god loves me.

Tools to shape your life

It is well said that "Never kill a fly on you forehead with an axe". When this was said in front of school going primary students, one of them answered "Why should I use an axe I will kill it with a zapper." This incident is very logical and simple answer by the child. The meaning of this was why to use big tolls for small problems?

Thus here further can be added that don't use dull, blunted, outmoded instruments to build your life. If you don't realize that you have an unlimited stock of tools from which to choose the right one and if you don't know to use the tools that you are knowing about and having with you then how could you build your life.

This is a big question in front of all human being at present. Many of us are unaware of capabilities they know. And remaining who are knowing about are not having any hint how to use it to make their life better. But some people are having answers of both questions and use it to make their life better.

As these both questions are very confusing so I have an affirmation for you and tell it to yourself that "I am aware of my capabilities and I use them in the right way, to make my life better and easy. I can you a suitable tool to solve the problems and to achieve my goals."

Thus you have to use your tools very well to shape your life. Wrong tool wrong results, proper tool proper results. Happy life is everyone's goal. Easy life is everyone's need. And sin free life is everybody's responsibility.

वनस्पती

जगात दोन प्रकारच्या वनस्पती आहेत.

एक - आपलं फळ स्वतः हुन देणाऱ्या..

उदा आंबा, पेरु, केळी इ.

दुसरी - आपलं फळ लपवून ठेवणाऱ्या..

उदा. गाजर ,मुळा,बटाटा,कांदा इ.

ज्या आपली फळे स्वतःहुन देतात त्यांना सर्वजन खत पाणी देऊन जीव लावतात.

अन् ज्या आपलं फळ लपवून ठेवतात त्यांना मुळा सहित उपटून काढलं जातं._

तसेच जो मनुष्य आपली विद्या, ज्ञान, धन, शक्ती स्वतःहुन समाजाच्या सेवेसाठी खर्च करतो. तो समाजात मान सम्मान मिळवण्यात प्राप्त ठरतो. त्याची चांगली किर्ती समाजात शिल्लक राहते.

याउलट जो मनुष्य आपली विद्या, ज्ञान, धन, शक्ती स्वार्थापोटी लपवून ठेवतो.

दुसऱ्यांना देण्याची वृत्ती बाळगत नाही तो मुळासगट उपटला जातो.

स्त्री तुम पुरुष न हो पाओगी

स्त्री तुम पुरुष न हो पाओगी........

वो कठोर दिल कहाँ से लाओगी.........

ज्ञान की तलाश क्या सिर्फ बुद्ध को थी?

क्या तुम नही पाना चाहती वो ज्ञान?

किन्तु जा पाओगी,अपने पति परमेश्वर

और नवजात शिशु को छोड़कर ,,,,,,,,,,,

तुम उनपर जान लुटाओगी,

उनकी होंठो के एक मुस्कुराहट के लिए

अपनी सारी खुशियो की बलि चढ़ाओगी।

स्त्री तुम पुरुष न हो पाओगी.........

वो कठोर दिल कहाँ से लाओगी.......

क्या राम बन पाओगी????

क्या कर पाओगी अपने पति का परित्याग,

उस गलती के लिए जो उसने किया ही नहीं????

ले पाओगी उसकी अग्निपरीक्षा

उसके नाज़ायज़ सबंधो के लिए भी????

क्षमा कर दोगी उसकी गलतियों के लिए,

हज़ार गम पीकर मुस्कुराओगी,

स्त्री तुम पुरुष न हो पाओगी..........

वो कठोर दिल कहाँ से लाओगी........

क्या कृष्ण बन पाओगी????

जुड़ पायेगा तुम्हारा नाम किसी परपुरुष के साथ,

जैसे कृष्ण संग राधा,,,,

अगर तुम्हारा नाम जुड़ा.......

तो तुम चरित्रहीन कहलाओगी.......

तुम मुस्कुराकर बात भी कर लोगी,

तो भी कलंकिनी कहलाओगी........

स्त्री तुम पुरुष न हो पाओगी........

वो कठोर दिल कहाँ से लाओगी.......

क्या युधिष्ठिर बन पाओगी????

जुए में पति को हार जाओगी?????

तुम उसके सम्मान की खातिर,

खुद को कुर्बान कर जाओगी......

मौत भी आये तो उसके आगे खड़ी हो जाओगी।

स्त्री तुम पुरुष न हो पाओगी.......

वो कठोर दिल कहाँ से लाओगी.......

तुम नाजुक हो,

तुम सरल हो,

तुम सहज हो,

तुम निश्चल हो,

तुम निर्मल हो,

तुम कोमल हो,

तुम जीवन हो,

तुम प्रेम ही प्रेम हो,

हाँ, इसलिए तो तुम स्त्री हो.......

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