Am I falling short in giving him the #love he deserves and craves for? Am I making him feel #guilty for #leisure? Am I #pressuring him too much for #studies? Am I #expecting too much from him?
As a #mother if you have above questions in #anxiety then this article is only for you. You should read it till the end.
As a #mother if you have above questions in #anxiety then this article is only for you. You should read it till the end.
There is a stage of #pseudo-guilt which is result of above full anxiety. There should be no place for pseudo-guilt in #parenting, because it often wreaks havoc with parental #emotion, which the #kids learn to exploit very quickly. This results in a sequence of #manipulations ending with #unexplained and #unexplainable thought of action.
Parents as well as all elders including #teachers must have a skill of balancing between several factors such as #crime, mistake, #punishment and #affection etc. If a child is crossing the fencing of #family #descipline, his actions are not crime. But if you as a parent treating it as a crime then thiswill turn into a fictional guilt.
Every elder must remember that #childhood is the only time durig which life's foundation is laid and consolidated and upon which life's #superstructure of later years is built. Instead of 'Spare the rod and spoil the child' the attitude of a parent should be 'use the rod judiciously and build a child'.
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